This has probably been covered in the past, but in case it hasn’t, I just had the notion of yet another way to improve bonds, very simply.
Rewrite them as move triggers.
________ does not understand me, or my culture. I will explain myself to them, no matter how long it takes.
becomes something like…
When ______ misunderstands me or my culture, I will explain myself to them, no matter how long it takes.
The difference is subtle and easy to write off, but I think it increases the chance of players interacting with them, since they are already primed to look for similar triggers.